This is article #37 to be published on the Get The Guy blog from my brother Stephen.Steve helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships.Knowing what you want is half the battle, and having the strength to stick to it is a turn on. If he knows he has to step up his game to get your attention, he’s going to assume it’s because you have plenty of other options.
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So in the name of clearing up some confusion, here are the top 3 mistakes women make when trying to be challenging, and what to do instead: Mistake No. What To Do Instead: Tell him what kind of traits you if you have reservations about the particular field, the least you can do is show that you admire the qualities it displays, whether it’s the pursuit of knowledge, the bravery to follow his passion, or simply the fact that he’s pushing himself to achieve something difficult.
1 – Never being impressed by him “Oh, really, you have a masters degree in literature? They’re all broke now, there’s no money in a humanities degree, right? You might think you’re just sharing an opinion, or making a light joke at his expense, and that may be true. Another thing you can do to be challenging here is tell him what kind of traits impress you in a guy. If you’re friendly and care for it, he’ll become completely attached to you – if you scare it, he’ll run to someone else.
While there are a lot of guys like that (and girls too, for that matter), the kind of guy who actually wants more than sex is probably interested in a girl who isn’t necessarily easy to win over.
That doesn’t mean you have play hard to get, it just means you Guys like the chase.You don’t stop challenging him after the chase is over.Just because you finally decided to give him a chance doesn’t mean it’s suddenly going to be smooth sailing.Of course he isn’t going to turn down a girl who does all the work, but at the same time, he probably won’t stay interested for long.If he has to put in work, he’ll have the chance to consider how much he really wants you, and then he’ll be a lot more invested in the outcome. He most likely knows he could pick up a girl without breaking a sweat if he wanted to, but where’s the fun in that? If you make it hard for him, he’ll automatically want it even more.He wanted you because you’re smart and you keep him on his toes, and he knows that’s not going to go away once you’re together.