How can a man verify a woman’s character quickly, so that he doesn’t get caught up in a relationship with a woman who is unlikely to be monogamous over the long-term?If a man avoids one thing in a woman, he will increase his chances of long-term happiness a thousand fold: It used to be that the word narcissist wasn’t thrown around lightly.
In the 1950s, just 12% of respondents agreed with the statement, “I am an important person.” By the 1980s, 80% felt special.3.
In 1967, 45% of American students felt that “Being well off is an important life goal.” By 2004, 74% agreed with that statement.4.
Just curious, you had the post on this is what good guys look like and red flags for bad guys, I’d be interested if you have a comparable list on how to identify the red flags for bad girls who are likely to behave like the woman here.
That’s a fair question, and as I’ve been thinking it over I’ve found that applying the same standards women use doesn’t really work.
In its worst form it is a diagnosable personality disorder (NPD), and historically, 75% of those diagnosed with NPD have been male.
However, researchers who have recently studied narcissistic personality traits in the American population say it’s an epidemic, increasing just as fast as obesity since the 1980s, and that much of the growth comes from women.
Their interest in a woman is immediate upon seeing her, and she may wield considerable power over him based on her sexual attractiveness.
Women are generally willing to enter relationships, but men worry about finding out down the road that a woman was not who he thought.
During the 1960s, the core American value of individualism began to morph into self-admiration.