On a casual first date, most people dress comfortable and wear their favorite tee and jeans.
Three kinds of singles lose their focus on a date, singles that aren’t really single, singles that just can’t stop keeping their options open, and someone single who’s lost interest in you as a dating potential.
[Read: What guys always notice on a date] [Read: What girls always notice on a date] If you want to have a happy date and a happily ever after with someone, both of you have to stay focused on each other during a first date. It seems like a trivial date question, but it can be one of those questions that can test the compatibility of a long term relationship.
[Read: Best places to go on a first date] How do you feel?
Do you feel happy to be with this person on a date?
Your date may feel nervous during the first couple of minutes or may even roll out a few well rehearsed lines, so don’t judge a date in the first few minutes. All of us have our own preferences in attitude when it comes to dating someone. Two singles usually fix a date to get to know each other.
Some girls like a smooth player like Hitch while other girls prefer a calm and confident Edward Cullen. Whatever the attitude, if you want to get to know someone on a date and build a connection, you have to like their personality and connect with it. Is your date focused on you during the date, or do you find their eyes drifting around all the time?
If your date makes you inch closer involuntarily and try to reach for their hands or the next best thing, chances are, there’s a lot of sizzling chemistry in the air.
Do you like it when your date touches you for some reason or are you waiting to finish dessert so you can get into the back seat of the car?
An instinct may feel like divine intervention, but there’s also a chance that it’s your subconscious mind picking up signs and clues that your conscious mind is missing out on.
You may have been on a few first dates before, and your mind may be noticing some similar traits in this one.
While a bit of compromise and effort may keep the next few dates from falling apart, these differences are going to matter and cause a lot of confusion in the months to come.