Mark also says that saunas are “dying a death” – and that adult cinemas are becoming ever more popular with both gay and straight people.
Ich bin auf der Suche nach einem netten Ausgehpartner in und rund um Hannover.
In erster Linie solltest du mit dir selbst zufrieden sein und eine freundliche Ausstrahlung haben.
“There are other men who are married to their wives, and of course they’re leading double lives. One would be a gay life and the other would be straight. “I met a guy a few years ago who said he was actually very happy in his marriage, but at the same time he was still closeted. “To be honest, if I had my way, I would probably close it. And I think the Boilerhouse probably has a total monopoly.
He said, ‘If I told my wife I’m gay I’d lose everything.’ He is missing out in terms of his own personal life. He’s technically cheating constantly, all the time, which is kind of sad.” Michael Campbell, who owns the Dock, says that his venue is used mostly by older men. Most people who come here would be over 60, and I would think that’s probably because they can’t use the internet.” He adds that he believes gay saunas are on their way out. We would only get five visitors a day, and at the weekend we might get maybe 15. They probably get 95 or 97 per cent of all the trade.” Despite the Dock’s lack of success in recent years the sauna still seems to have a significance for older men, many of whom are not openly gay.
Kevin, who is 32, has been going to the Boilerhouse several times a year since 2012.
He came out in 2010, and he says the sauna gave him a unique opportunity to have anonymous and frequent sex with multiple partners.
A Gay Sauna in Cuxhaven Landkreis typically is dimly lit, plays soothing romantic music, occasionally enclosed with the uncommon rooftop or pool region with an outdoor setting which encourages clients to wander around.
At a gay sauna, there are a lot of activities you can enjoy such as, spending an evening or a weekend, hanging out, watching the game, having a drink or enjoying three-course meals in the fancy bars and restaurants in some of these locations.
“When I first went there I thought I was the youngest.
Some people did warn me in advance that it was a bunch of old men, but I said to myself, ‘I’m just going to go and see what the story is.’ Back in those days it was a bit of an older gentleman’s place. I went there on my birthday last year, and the lads were about 18 or 19. The eldest, from what I recall, would be in their late 70s.” But while the younger men are often openly gay, Kevin says, many older men are “very strict on privacy” and are often closeted.
Dabei spielt es für mich keine Rolle, ob jung oder älter.