If you’ve been talking with her for a couple of days, tell her that you’d like to call/text her and get her number.
And this is doubly true when it comes to flirting over text.
You see, there are two key ingredients to any successful seduction: rapport and tension. And also let her know that it’s fair game for her to try tease you back.
For example, whenever I make a girl laugh out loud, I like to say something along the lines of, “God you look sexy when you laugh like that.”And then before she has time to respond I’ll add, “Completely random question but, on a scale of 1-10, how good of a kisser are you?
”If you can make a girl laugh, blush or smile with these flirty questions, while holding a calm and confident frame, you’re doing it very right!
And while rapport is what builds comfort, creates a deeper connection, it’s not going to get you any dates by itself. And one of the best ways to create this tension over text is through a bit of playful teasing. For example, if a girl says something particularly bratty, you could say, “I don’t know who your last boyfriend was, but he clearly didn’t spank you enough.”Another great way to build attraction and tension over text is by asking a girl flirty questions.
Timing, however, is everything, and you should ask a girl these types of flirtatious questions at certain escalation points in your interaction.
Another thing that a lot of men get wrong is that they think that they should wait until much later to build sexual tension with a girl.
This is how approximately 43% of the world’s male population ends up in the friend-zone. Coming across as a guy who’s comfortable and in-tune with his sexuality is sexy.
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