You are just 'infatuated' with the thought of love and being loved by a man. Older men ARE more mature and often make way better husbands (my opinion) They are more thoughful and caring for a woman.But by what you have said that doesn't sound like you. Just make sure that you keep being independent too and that you don't become like his 'daughter' instead of his girl friend.
Furthermore, don't presume that you have to “take care” of her emotionally.
She’s a woman, not a child, after all - even if she is your daughter’s age. “When I was your age...” “Young people are so ____.” “Oh you weren't even BORN when this album was released.” “You were still a toddler in 1989?
If you really like her, just go with the flow and be yourself, regardless of whether “yourself” is a silly, dorky, immature 57-year old or a wise and mature 24.
Do be understanding I can get kind of defensive when dating older guys, worried that some might see me as another notch on the bedpost, or fresh meat to pass the time until someone more serious comes along.
From salt-and-pepper George Clooneys to silver-fox Harrison Fords, young women are swooning over smooth older men more than ever.
These days the idea of young women dating older – often significantly older - men barely raises an eyebrow. A long stints in an asylum for the criminally insane? But just because she hasn’t shared a similar experience, don't feel that she wouldn't relate to your life or your issues; open up and you never know what wisdom she could offer.
10 yrs doesn't seem like that much compared to 21 yrs but it's still quite a difference. At first when we were dating I worried a lot about why I wanted to be with him.
In a way, I was kinda embarrased because I knew that most women like men around their own age.
Ive always liked older men (not to such the extreme I am dating now though) but I have always liked older men because they are usually ore mature/intelligent. I refuse to let him buy me things and he's not the type to do that anyway, he gives me no money, all that and that's the way I want it, I want a relationship not a sugar daddy so it's not about that.