But you don’t know if they’re interested in you as a person or because of your foreignness.
Christa: I actually approached someone on the train recently and he was totally ok with it but yeah it was kind of up to me to make a move.
In the name of research, Gaijin Pot got together three different women (UK, USA and Italy) to share their experiences of dating in Japan. Chiara: I thought that they didn’t find me attractive so I wasn’t really interested in Japanese guys, even though I was attracted to them.
Rebecca: I wasn’t so attracted to Japanese men but now after living here for three years I would say I definitely am. Christa: I’ve always been attracted to Japanese men, even when I was young, so I did some research before I came here and I saw that generally they are interested but they’re very shy about approaching women so you may need to approach them.
While there are potentially massive downsides to marrying a Japanese girl (you may never see your kids again if you get a divorce, which you’ll probably want to get because over 60% of Japanese marriages are sexless), there are also huge benefits to dating Japanese girls, as well. You’d be hard pressed to find girls that are more playful than Japanese girls.
Even the hottest ones will make goofy cute faces and funny poses in front of a camera.
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When I first came, I felt no guys found me attractive since they never looked my way.
Chiara: I heard too that Japanese men weren’t so interested in foreign women but my experience is kind of the opposite.
On top of that they have a great media machine creating talent …and pushing it out to all corners of the globe over the past few years.