I didn't want to do it but I did and although at first it was just normal stuff, nothing bad sexually intrusive thoughts came in and although I wasn't thinking about anything bad sexually like having sex with family members the worry that I might and I just thought of them non sexually while I was masturbating came into my mind and so for hours afterwards I had to really make sure that I was climaxing while thinking about a guy and the original non bad sexual thoughts I had about non real people, but while my mum was talking to me I was doing it and I felt so bad and she mentioned the name of a family member while I was trying to masturbate but I wasn't thinking about them I would never think of any of them sexually but because she mentioned it while I was trying to masturbate it made me feel bad.
The fact that your worrying proves that it's 100% ocd. as a christian myself i know what your going through.
i am a teenage boy and have ocd and whenever im masturbating i feel the same worries as you've mentioned.
Those who 'commit adultery' with their hand and thereby cause semen to be spilled it is not enough that this is a great prohibition, but one who does so should sit in excommunication and about them it is said "Their hands are full of blood" and it is as if they have killed a person.“And you shall keep yourself from every evil thing”; From here R. Yair said that a person should not have [impure] thoughts in his heart, and thus bring himself to have impurity at night.”(Ketubot 46a)It is forbidden for a man who is not married to touch his private parts so that he doesn't come to have a sexual thought.
And he may not even touch anywhere under his belly button lest he have a sexual thought.
Thank you for the reply I know normally I would do it when I'm alone in the house but the OCD yesterday was making me do it while I wasn't, I've already decided I'm not going to do it again, not while my OCD is so bad as it causes me too much problems and anxiety , but thank you for what you've said does make me feel better Glad I could help, when you say the ocd made you do it, do you mean you were doing it as a checking routine ?
and I get what you mean, I stopped my self after the incident I said about in my last reply, if you feel its that bad at the moment I would stop for now, for me it was all about loosing the fear of thinking about other people, I know how horrible this can be, but you will get there Kind of but I've still been doing it, I feel like I have to go back to that particular incident about the family member and think the sexual thoughts ( which weren't about family or anything ) so I can again reassure myself I wasn't masturbating thinking about the family members name it was what I was thinking of that I was masturbating about, I know that was what it was but the OCD isn't letting me believe that one minute I'm knowing that's what it was the next I'm doubting myself, I have been masturbating again yesterday and today but I'm definitely stopping now because it's causing me even more distress it makes me feel sick and evil even though I know that I wasn't masturbating about the family member it was the sexual thoughts ( which weren't about anyone I was related to ) that I was masturbating to.
It's really important to find out what feels good to you, not just what is supposed to feel good. I guess I just don't know what I really want in a sex toy. Woman C: Technically, no, but I had a boyfriend buy one for me as a parting gift when we were entering a long-distance relationship. Woman B: (See above.) Woman C: I never use it because it's so loud, but it was a very nice present!
It's the famous Hitachi Magic Wand and it's too rough for me.
Just, "Hey, check out this cool thing I discovered," like it was a new game. Has it changed over the years or do you still masturbate the way you did when you first started? I didn't try anything new on my own, but once I knew other things felt better, they were incorporated. Woman B: If I'm in a time crunch I could probably have a go in about five minutes? Woman C: Pretty fast, 5 to 10 minutes, but I usually come multiple times during sex.
This is a super-weird concept for me now that I'm an adult, but it was really innocent since there was no comprehension or apprehension. There weren't any big changes until high school, once I was actually partaking in sex with a boyfriend. It probably only takes me a minute or two, but obviously I like to enjoy it, so I usually stretch it out to make it last longer (also, better orgasms that way).
And when he urinates he should not hold his member and urinate.