Has anyone else been part of dating site for bigger people? " (we were already talking about meeting) assuming he'd say "yes" and that he was attracted to me (because he certainly seemed like it before this).
Then he says, "That puts me in a bind" I immediately knew that was bad news. " and he responds, "Couldn't tell how much." I ended up telling him it obviously wouldn't work.
When asked why identifying as transgender would exclude someone from identifying as bisexual and placing a personal ad on a bisexual dating site, Brown reiterated that Tango Wire's site does not accommodate transgender people.
"It's that T side [in LGBT] that we have not been able to fully accommodate within our program.
He said Teich violated the company's terms of service by changing the gender on his profile. He said he might file a complaint against the company with civil rights authorities in Seattle. That being said, I am not familiar of another specific example of something like this," said Herrschaft.
Teich said he was angry when told that he was being booted from the site for identifying as transgender."I was in absolute shock when I saw that e-mail. Daryl Herrschaft, director of Human Rights Campaign's (HRC) Workforce Equality Project, said that HRC works to educate gay-owned businesses about the transgender community, but he could not recall an instance of a gay-owned business being so blatant in discriminating against transgender people."We created a guide called 'Small Business Basics' along with the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, and what that guide does, it was geared towards small business owners and people affiliated with the National Gay and Lesbian Chamber of Commerce, many of which are gay-owned businesses. Brown told Bay Windows that despite Tango Wire's exclusion of transgender customers the company strongly supports the LGBT community."The founder and CEO is gay, and we have an operations person who is gay.
UPDATED July 3 2008When Nick Teich created a free account on the online personals site Bisexual Dating last week, he decided to disclose that he is transgender.
Perhaps he shouldn't have."They say, tell us about yourself in your own words.
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That is shown [by the fact] that in our registration, transgender is not one of the options we provide, and we don't provide that as such. That identity is not an identity we have an ability to support," said Brown.
He said that while Teich's disclosure of his trans status played a role in the deletion of his profile, the primary reason he was removed is that he changed his profile on the Tango Wire network of sites from lesbian to bisexual male."We don't support bisexual males on a lesbian site. When you sign up in our network your original site of registration is the site you get oriented in," said Brown. And I know that these people are ignorant, but it didn't roll off my back that easily," said Teich, who contacted Bay Windows about the incident and reported it to the legal hotline of Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders.
When he registered with Bisexual Dating he assumed he was signing onto a completely new site, but in fact the profiles for each site are linked to one massive database, meaning that someone on one of the bisexual sites could view the profile of a member of one of the lesbian sites.