It’s hard to believe another year has flown by and I’ve spent hundreds of hours browsing thousands of online dating profiles for men.
I’ve put in my share of 10,000 hours on multiple online dating sites and various dating apps.
That’s according to a survey of 2,800 singles released this week by dating site Plenty of Fish, which concluded that “ladies may want to consider putting the words ‘pumpkin spice’ in their online dating profile.” (The same did not hold true for men.)No doubt, this is good news to whoever is paying for the date, as a pumpkin spice latte costs around .50, compared to or more for a glass of wine.
Pumpkin spice isn’t the only phrase that can get you a date. Fully 15% of American adults say they have used at least one online dating sites and/or mobile dating apps.
According to data from 12,000 profiles released last year from dating site e Harmony.com, a number of words make a potential love interest more likely to respond to you. That’s up from the 11% who reported doing so in early 2013, according to data from last year released by the Pew Research Center.
“Ask me about myself, I prefer not to write.” “I’m not good at filling this stuff out.” “Message me if you’re interested” “Been here before and it sucked, but trying it one last time.” You don’t want to leave any impression that you rushed filling out your profile or that you gave your online dating profile a half-ass attempt.
The message and impression women will get is that you’re lazy, you’re self centred, you’re not serious, you’re a possible sociopath or that there must be something wrong with you.
How many times have you heard the statement that you only get one chance to make a great first impression? Take it from me, it is so easy to point out a great looking profile photo.
It still astonishes me to see so many guys being super lazy about their online dating profile photo.
I could spend hours on this topic and I won’t for your sake.
lol The best advice I can share with you is to make sure you READ the woman’s entire profile if you intend to send her a message. Most guys make the mistake of messaging women they find attractive, hot or pretty, without taking the time to read anything at all on her profile. You’re hot.” Cheesy, lack lustre, one liners or pointless statements are NOT engaging and will typically be dismissed. Video tip: https://youtu.be/NYnqr Pp S04s Women love a great username.
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Physically fit ( 96% more interaction than daters who did not use this word) 2.