________________________________________ A player passively invites you places.
This is to say, his attempts to spend time with you are weak, at best.
It’s not that we don’t listen, it’s just that sometimes we genuinely can’t remember smaller details about things.
________________________________________ A player spends more time talking about himself than trying to get to know you.
A player is usually insecure and tries to show himself they can get the girl – so learning about you is secondary.
________________________________________ Unless he’s trying to see you, a player never talks to you. Is he talkative, romantic and friendly as the weekend is approaching or when he’s asking you to spend time together, but seems distant and much less eager to respond to texts any other time?
Sure, he might be busy with work, but this is 2014, people are constantly attached to their phones and he will find time to text you back if he really wants to.
I’ve been floating around to different blogs tagged with ‘dating’ and ‘relationships’ to see what’s going on in the world.
Unfortunately, I’ve seen a lot of hurt and disappointment that could’ve been avoided, had warning signs been recognized. We wanted to know if we could be The One to rope that bull, drag him mercilessly into a relationship, and then tag him and bag him for the rest of his sorry days. He wanted to do the old stop, flop, and roll—as in roll out of bed, down the street, and out of our lives. We wanted to know if he was as good in bed as the reputation that long preceded him suggested. Not only did he know it, he was looking for us, and he wanted us not for a relationship, mind you.To them, the dating “game” is just that – a game they can play in order to win…that’s why they’re called players.A man who is truly interested in you will take the time to converse with you and relate to you during your discussions, not keep all of the attention on himself to convince you how great he is.________________________________________ A player tells you things like you’re “too beautiful/hot/sexy/smoldering/intoxicating/etc.” to be single.